THE BOOK

You were never meant to be tame.

The world is designed to make women keep questioning themselves. To build their own cages. But you can feel her in there, the one you were before, screaming to get out.

FERAL is your guide back to her. It’s the result of 70 + years of life, a tsunami of mistakes and a few decades of working out how this shit works.

Social media would have you believe that you should either rage endlessly against the patriarchy or sink into a swamp of therapy and victimhood. You’re told you’re either perfect as you are - or broken.

Fuck that.

You, we, were never taught from birth how to BE inside ourselves. So the system decided for us.

Let’s fix that shit and break free.

The Mission

I am so over seeing women pay for a magic bullet to help them out of their confusion, rage and misery. Social Media is saturated with grifters making money off the back of their fellow women, all the while knowing they are still as flawed as everyone else.

FERAL was written to break that mould. To give you a method that works, always, reliably, and grows over time with you. The book is the essence, and the Skulk is how we keep it all going, in the middle of the chaos of life, together.

This is my legacy project. I’ve been ruined, and I’ve been blessed. I make my living through my other work with CEOs and businesses. Every woman who regains her true self becomes not only happy in herself but an example and inspiration for everyone she touches.

HOW IT WORKS

A skulk is what you call a group of foxes. It’s the name for the tribe that gathers around this work: readers, thinkers, women operating on their own terms.

The Skulk

Read and talk — free

The writing, the deeper information and expansion from your comments and questions land on Substack as Dispatches from The Skulk. The conversation is open to everyone. No tier, no wall, no asking.

The monthly room — for supporters

Once a week, I’m live on a call with whoever wants to come, to talk things through together. That’s the one thing I charge a small amount (a cup of coffee) for, because it’s the one thing that costs me time I can’t get back. Want in and money’s tight? Say so, and you’re in anyway.

A small monthly subscription · free place for anyone who asks

The library — free

Tools, prompts, podcasts, videos of the method, on Substack, and on this website, to download and use. Nothing held back.

The one true claim under all of this is ancient: the only thing you finally govern is your own interior, and what you need is already in there. James Allen wrote it. Emmet Fox wrote it. The Stoics wrote it long before either.

Old idea. New evidence.

THE THINKING BEHIND IT

What’s new is that we can now say how it works rather than merely that it does: attention, self awareness, maturity, curiosity, self-control. FERAL takes the serious core of that tradition back from the people who turned it into a sales pitch. Spiritual in the broad sense. Not religious, not preachy, and almost never woo.

NO ONE IS COMING TO SAVE YOU

Save yourself. Go FERAL.

Get told the day the book lands.